Curriculum

Our Lower School curriculum provides an enriching education for the whole child, nurturing the intellectual, social, emotional, and physical growth of every first through fourth grade student.
Foundational Learning
In the morning, small groups of approximately ten students and one teacher engage in reading, writing, math, science, and social studies. Our structured literacy program includes explicit phonics instruction and is the result of a multi-year exploration of research-based best practices. Science and social studies content is purposefully integrated into their reading comprehension. Research has shown that this approach allows for successful knowledge acquisition. Our mathematics instruction focuses on a progression of foundational concepts and skills with number sense, computation, and logical reasoning.
In addition to our foundational learning, all students engage in Spanish, physical education, creative movement, art, and music classes with expert teachers.
Social and Emotional Learning
Equally as important as academic learning needs, our rigorous social and emotional curriculum guides children to work with and support one another, develop peaceful conflict resolution skills, and make use of mindfulness-based practices. Data affirms that students’ sense of belonging allows them to stretch more academically.
Our approach to supporting students is built on certainty (through structures and routines), relatedness (sense of community and having windows and mirrors into individual identities), and fairness (a sense that their voice is heard and understanding the “why” of rules).
Conflict Resolution
As a Quaker school, peaceful resolution of conflict is core to our philosophy. In the Lower School, fostering a shared responsibility of conflict resolution, of both students and teachers, is a part of the fabric of our daily life. We begin teaching conflict resolution skills from day one and lessons and reminders are woven into the curriculum throughout the year. Our students’ toolkits include proactive solutions like self-regulation skills, boundary setting, and role play to talk through tough situations. We employ restorative practices, teaching students how to use conferences to hold each other accountable and find solutions together. Partnerships with families are key to exploring deeper issues and creating shared language for conflict inside and outside the classroom.
Outdoor Learning
We utilize our 126+ acre campus as an outdoor classroom and also as a means to teach environmental stewardship core to the Carolina Friends School philosophy. Beginning with the oft-repeated phrase, “we are observers, not disturbers, of nature,” our Lower School curriculum is intimately connected with our role in learning about and caring for our wonderful outdoors.
Subject Areas
Quaker Values
We are both intentionally secular and deeply informed by principles of mutual respect, a search for truth, and a desire for social justice
Thick and Thin Questions
Open-ended questions lead to unfolding paths of discovery. We teach our children to think beyond "yes or no" questions, to questions of real resonance and challenge.
After School
We offer Extended Day care as well as Student Enrichment opportunities.